Monday, 23 May 2011

Reconnecting With Friends after Moving

One thing that most people miss after moving to new home, especially kids, is their friends. In fact, change of address from time to time can affect your kids ability to relate with new people when they grow. This is because they lack the ability to make and maintain new friendships. That is why parents are always concerned with how moving to new place will affect their kids, both socially and psychologically. In fact, if you are a parent, it is advisable to move to a new home only when it is completely necessary.

Since change of address is sometimes inevitable, the only way you can deal with it is to be prepared for it. First, changing your address means that your mails will need to be delivered to your new home address. If the proper arrangements are not made, you may end up losing connection with your friends and associates, especially those who were used to communicating with you through mail.
There are things that cannot change even with the advent of new technology. Age-old traditions like delivering Christmas cards via the mail service cannot be changed. Therefore, you need to make plans to ensure that all your family friends and associates know your new address. This will help them to connect with you easier. Encourage your kids to give their friends your new address too.

Make sure that everyone whom you have ties with; especially your family friends have your new family phone number. Sometimes, change of address can bring challenges that are hard to deal with and you may need the support of friends to cope. The occasional calls from friends when you are at your new home can make things easier for you. This can also be very helpful for kids who have left friends behind, since sometimes they will need to be talked to.